"Nancy Fagan is a Genius...A Pioneer in the Field of Pre-Divorce Planning." --Phillip Randall (more reviews)
Divorce Expert
About The Divorce Help Clinic™
Ms. Fagan’s role as a divorce consultant is similar to that of a wedding planner except the focus is divorce. Whether a client needs direction, referrals or a detailed divorce plan, the goal is to reach a better position post-divorce. For those engaged in a divorce custody battle and need to improve their court appearance or want to increase the percentage of child custody time, learning about body language and etiquette can make a big difference in the outcome. Post-Divorce is a time to heal the family relationships that have been impacted by divorce, learning to be effective co-parents as well as moving on to new, romantic relationships. Learning how to avoid past relationship mistakes and/or developing dating skills is a must. The Divorce Help Clinic™ caters to all-things-divorce.
What is Pre-Divorce Planning?
Considering leaving your spouse? You need a solid exit plan. Pre-divorce planning involves carefully planning out often-overlooked aspects of your life. Determine where you would like to be after your divorce and we’ll help you to develop a divorce plan of action to make it happen. A good pre-divorce plan requires methodical preparation in the months leading up to informing your spouse you want a divorce. The better your plan, the smoother the divorce will go. And the better your position will be in your post-divorce life. More
Do-it Yourself Divorce
If you are trying to save money on legal costs, the only way to make sure you do it correctly is to have one of our legal experts guide you through the confusing divorce process to make sure it's done correctly. In addition, our legal experts will explain the divorce process, court fees, court preparation including how to behave in front of the judge, crucial deadlines and much more. More
What is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce Mediation is an alternative to litigation (where attorneys fight one another for what their clients want). Mediation, on the other hand, is an informal meeting where a divorce mediator guides the couple through a series of step-by-step confidential sessions to resolve issues that might block agreement. More
Same Sex Mediation
Since January 1, 2005, California same sex couples who are registered domestic partners have been granted virtually all of the same rights and advantages that traditional married couples enjoy. What this also means is that if the partnership does not work out—for whatever reason—the couple needs to dissolve their relationship legally.
What is Marriage Mediation?
Marriage Mediation is not marriage counseling. In fact, they are very different. Marriage Mediation does NOT explore feelings, emotions, family history or “pathologize” issues. Instead, problems are identified, tradeoffs made and solutions agreed upon. More
What is Post-Divorce Relationship Help?
Research shows that divorce has a significant negative impact on a person’s life and relationships. The newly divorced quickly discover that most aspects of their lives are disrupted by the unexpected. Post-divorce relationship help is not psychotherapy. Instead, it is a process of guiding you in the right direction. We discuss the skills to help you adjust to your new post-divorce life and the people in it. For example, we teach you to develop dating skills and/or to teach you how to help your children cope with the loss of a two-parent family. Being single is what you make it—good or bad. The choice is yours! More
Divorce Parenting Class
At The Divorce Help Clinic™ we offer a monthly 4-hour Court-approved parenting class for those who fit the following categories: 1. Mandated to attend, 2. Attorney-referred (to Improving your appearance as a fit parent), or 3. Simply want the best, up-to-date information about how to co-parent and help your children through the divorce process and beyond. Best of all, it is taught by a Family Court Services mediator who will give you insight into how to be the best parent you can be (on paper and/or with your children. More
Articles
- Divorce & Privacy: The Truth will Shock you!
- Considering Divorce? You Need An Exit Plan
- 4 Triggers that Fuel a Loss of Control
- Dating After Divorce
- Pre-Divorce Planning by Phone
- How to Save your Marriage from Divorce
The Divorce Help Clinic also specializes in same sex couples, same sex domestic partnerships, lesbian and gay mediation, gay and lesbian divorce mediation in San Diego, LGBT relationship dissolutions, San Diego cohabitation agreement for same sex couples, same sex custody and visitation.

